I am excited to share my experience I had this weekend at Boss Babe Inc.’s Soul and Success live event. It was put on by Natalie, Danielle, and Alyssa.
First, let me say the amount of power, transformation, and sisterhood that filled the room was amazing! So, if it’s so wonderful, why was it not what I expected? It has to do with money. Keep reading.
Alyssa led us in a money meditation, which money energy is something we are all constantly working on just like our energy in general. We all want to break through our money blocks and be in alignment for abundance. We all want that money hunay! Yea, duh!
So what the hell does money have to do with our parents and forgiveness??? A lot! In Alyssa’s meditation, I learned a whole new technique relating money, my parents, and judgements. Some women were crying and were excited about their breakthroughs. I was NOT expecting to feel the way that I did. I had a huge breakthrough!
I started with the #1 judgment I wanted to work with, which was “To make lots of money I have to work hard, which means work more, and working more means I have to sacrifice too much time away from my kids.”
I examined what I believed my mother’s and father’s habits and storied were surrounding money. Alyssa asked a participant, who discussed one of her parent’s story around money, is this story yours that you created about your parent, or is it theirs? She has an excellent point here because we are the ones who add meaning to our experiences. We are the ones who judge it and them. Once we are aware of where our judgments are coming from that no longer serves us, we are then able to release it with deep compassion.
I forgave everything that I judged about my parents regarding their stories and choices around money with deep compassion. After all, they did the best they could with what they had or knew how to do.
I took Alyssa’s suggested “soul perspective” when it came to forgiving myself. Taking a step back and coming from a higher perspective while witnessing my patterns related to my fears and the feelings of lack in areas of my life. I forgave myself with deep compassion for believing these fears. I also forgave myself with deep compassion for my limiting belief, if I make more money I will be overworked, have to sacrifice too much time away from kids and doing things that keep me in my creative flow. Then I will get overwhelmed and sick again.
My insight: The more I take care of myself, follow my joys, and have fun, the more creativity flows. I can then find creative ways to make the money I want. I am aligned, and I attract more people who benefit from my services because I am feeling happy and healthy and ready to serve.
When I am taking care of myself and not stressed out or overwhelmed, I am able to be in my flow. And when I am in my flow, I feel better energetically, physically, emotionally, which mean that I am better able to manifest! Things come to me with ease and grace. I attract the right people into my life and clients who need my help.
Then we selected a money mantra. My money mantra this past year has been, “Money flows to me with ease and grace.” However, now, it fully clicked. The ease and grace come from me being in alignment. And to be in alignment is achieved by taking care of myself in mind, body, heart, spirit, and energy. This connection was a huge breakthrough for me since this past year, I have been committed to taking care of myself, and now I understand, feel, and see the connection to my self-worth and money.
I claimed how much I want to make in the next 12 months. And then doubled it! F*k Yes!
Now it’s your turn to forgive and claim it sista!
In the comments below, please answer:
- What is one fear or limiting belief you hold about money?
- And, what is one thing that you need to forgive yourself for judging around your money story? Please remember to do this with deep compassion.
- Lastly, what is your money mantra? Make sure it is strength-based, meaning adding to your life not taking away.
With All My